Incredible venues in Provence

Imagine saying ‘I do’ surrounded by lavender fields, vineyards, and the golden light of Provence…

If you’re dreaming of a destination wedding in Europe, there’s probably no setting more idyllic than Provence. Other than perhaps California and Tuscany, Provence offers some of the most exceptional golden light in the world, softly diffused over the landscape before sunset.

CHATEAU DE TOURREAU

With its avenue of ancient plane trees, its beautiful 18th-century façade in pastel tones, its enchanting park offering many options for your ceremony, dinner reception and Cocktail Hour, Chateau de Tourreau is one of our favorites for a destination wedding in the heart of Provence. Its 8-hectare grounds are magnificent and include an orchard, manicured gardens with a swimming pool and tennis courts, flowing streams and a small lake that add to the charm of the place. But what really makes Chateau de Tourreau stand out is its intimate historic chapel, which is able to accommodate up to 70 people. The venue offers 9 rooms in the Chateau (sleeping up to 15 people) and 7 rooms (for 14 people) in the renovated farm. A minimum stay of 3-night is required for weddings.

Photography: Maddy Christina

BASTIDE DE GORDES

Another favorite Provençal venue is La Bastide de Gordes. Located in the heart of the village of Gordes, the hotel is part of the Airelles Collection. With its timeless charm, sweeping views of the Luberon Valley and unparalleled location, it's impossible not to be won over by this highly desirable wedding venue that offers 34 rooms, 6 suites and a private villa. In terms of event space, a fantastic setting for the ceremony, reception dinner and Cocktail Hour is the garden (which can be fully or partially privatized, along with 8 bedrooms) as well as the pool area. There is also an Orangerie, which is perfect for drinks and dancing, but also as an alternative if it starts to rain. The terrace of the hotel is the ideal place for your welcome party or for drinks before the reception dinner. La Bastide de Gordes offers you Provence at its best, with impeccable service, exceptional surroundings and the incomparable French art de vivre.

Photography: Maddy Christina

LE GALINIER

Located in the charming village of Lourmarin, Le Galinier is a picturesque destination venue for those looking to host an intimate and authentic wedding in the South of France. The 18th-century Bastide is a typical Provençal country house set in a 3-hectare wooded and flowered park. It offers 9 accommodations in 3 houses with a total of 16 bedrooms and a capacity of 32 people. The pond area is the perfect place to seal your vows. Cocktail Hour can be held in the courtyard and the dinner reception by the gorgeous swimming pool, under a marquee if the weather is uncertain. 

Photography: Maddy Christina

Our vision of an authentic French wedding

A few weeks ago, my photographer friend Amelia Soegijono invited me to share my vision of an authentic French wedding. I chose to highlight the South of France more specifically, which I know on an intimate level. If you’re dreaming of a wedding in Provence for as long as you can remember, I hope that this piece will get you inspired and smitten.

Abbaye Notre-Dame de Senanque by Amelia Soegijono Photography

Counting numerous stunning settings, from manicured gardens, historical Belle Epoque villas, stylish country houses and beautiful Chateaux, France is considered by many couples as the nation of romance and love. As for many international lovebirds, Provence is one of the most sought-after destinations to honor the most special moment in life: a wedding celebration with family and friends. 

Of all the Provencal areas, the Luberon is by far my favorite region. Famous for its picturesque hilltop villages, year-round markets, sprawling vineyards and lavender fields, there is probably no setting more authentic and picture-perfect than this. I love it for its timeless elegance and exceptional golden light, softly diffused over the landscape prior to sunset.

Gordes at Sunset; Villa Ephrussi de Rothschild by Amelia Soegijono Photography

The exquisite architecture, the exceptional cuisine and wine, the graceful fountains and the seemingly eternal sunshine make it an idyllic backdrop for a romantic celebration under the stars. The destination is perfect for couples looking to experience the French «joie de vivre», all the while exploring the natural beauty of the region. As is often the case, if you have your guests traveling for your destination wedding, they will probably want to make a vacation out of it and Provence will offer them an experience of a lifetime. 

The region offers a myriad of distractions to satisfy both the young and old. Among our couples’ favourite activities, a visit to the market in Lourmarin followed by an authentic French cooking class, is always a big hit. A bike ride from one hilltop village to another, taking scenic routes and pausing at café terraces with a view, is also very popular. Depending on the season, you can admire fields of lavender or poppies in full bloom, vineyards or cherry orchards and stop at wine estates for a tasting. Canoeing down the Sorgue, antique hunting and hiking in the gorges are some of the many activities that can be enjoyed by your guests. 

The most magical backdrop, photographed from Villa Ephrussi by Amelia Soegijono Photography

Whilst nuptials are not often seen as a priority by the French, when they do say yes, their wedding celebrations are a memorable occasion to behold, celebrating two families coming together.

When it comes to the ceremony, French people have two of them. The civil ceremony is the one that makes the marriage official. It can be held on the same day as the reception – this is usually the case when couples marry in the region where they reside or were born – or the day before, which is more practical as this ceremony is not much of a celebration. It is usually held between the close family and the couple’s «témoins» (witnesses), who will sign the wedding registry. The second ceremony is either symbolic (often the case) or religious and takes place the day after. For a Provencal touch, one can replace the rose petals or rice thrown to the couple when exiting their ceremony with lavender buds. 

In French celebrations, not all the guests are invited to the dinner reception. When that’s the case, they are expected to slip away (they will know what portion of the wedding they are invited to, based on the invitation they received) before the remaining guests make their way to the dinner area. 

Canapés and champagne station at Villa Ephrussi, photographed by Amelia Soegijono Photography

Speaking about food: it is common knowledge that the French take this subject very seriously! A 4 or 5-course meal is not unusual and includes local delicacies and specialties. In Provence, lamb (served rare) is a traditional dish as well as an institution. Therefore, I highly recommend checking your guests’ dietary requirements before giving your caterer «carte blanche». And don’t be surprised if the latter asks you if you’re planning a «Vin d’Honneur» (cocktail hour), another French tradition that takes place after the ceremony and before dinner. This is a lovely occasion for the couple’s friends, neighbours and distant relatives to gather around drinks (Champagne or wine) and canapés (either tray-passed or served buffet-style).

Dinner is served late at French weddings (the celebration often taking place between June and September when the weather is most pleasant) and can last up to 4 hours. It is followed by a dance party that usually ends the next morning. At the end of the night, all guests are treated to an onion soup before leaving, a dish that is supposed to help them regain their strength and recover from an evening of wine and Champagne. 

When it comes to Champagne, one of the most renowned French traditions that has been adopted by couples from all over the world is the «Fontaine de Champagne». This a big crowd pleaser and a must to any classical weddings. Assembled in a pyramid shape by the caterer, the Champagne tower usually follows the Croquembouche, the traditional French dessert which I’m sure you are familiar with, and which can be swapped for a wedding cake or a dessert buffet (miniature cakes and tartlets).

Couple portrait at twilight by Amelia Soegijono Photography

If you are planning your fairytale wedding and are unsure on how to find your dream venue, we highly recommend working with an experienced planner whose expertise lies in the region of your choosing, and whose mission is to make your fairytale wedding come to life.

To conclude, it is a great idea for couples intending a destination wedding to embrace the full culture and heart of the place, to try something out of the ordinary, adding layers of intentionality to the celebration – making it both memorable and meaningful. Once you find your perfect wedding venue, don’t be afraid to embrace the history, its design and surroundings and showcase the unique elements of their local food, culture, or entertainment. 

Bastide de Gordes by Amelia Soegijono Photography

Now that I have shared a glimpse of an authentic French wedding, which one of these has inspired you most to have an enchanted wedding celebration that is truly you and truly French?